In a recent episode of The Surrogacy Space, I had the pleasure of speaking with Souad Dreyfus, CEO and Founder of Open Arms Consultants. We discussed the intricate process of selecting a surrogate, offering valuable insights for intended parents and surrogates alike.
The Journey into Surrogacy
Souad Dreyfus shares her unexpected journey into the world of third-party reproduction. Initially unaware of the field, she was recruited by a fertility specialist and quickly realized the emotional and complex nature of infertility struggles. This realization led her to establish Open Arms Consultants, a Florida-based surrogacy and egg donation agency, with a mission to provide emotional support and guidance to those navigating this challenging journey
Key Qualities in a Surrogate
Selecting the right surrogate is a meticulous process. Dreyfus emphasizes the importance of mental and physical health, a strong support system, and financial stability. Open Arms looks for surrogates who understand the commitment involved and are prepared for the emotional and physical demands of the surrogacy process. This careful selection process helps prevent potential legal issues and ensures a harmonious relationship between the surrogate and intended parents.
The Matching Process
Once a surrogate is onboarded, the matching process begins. Open Arms facilitates meetings between surrogates and intended parents to ensure compatibility on key issues such as contact preferences and views on sensitive topics like abortion. These meetings are designed to be casual yet informative, allowing both parties to gauge their comfort levels and compatibility. The agency’s experience and intuition play a crucial role in identifying potential red flags early on, ensuring a smooth journey for all involved.
Support Throughout the Journey
Open Arms provides comprehensive support not only during the matching and pregnancy phases but also post-delivery. The agency ensures that intended parents are comfortable in their new roles as parents and that surrogates receive the necessary medical and emotional support. This holistic approach underscores the agency’s commitment to the well-being of all parties involved, extending their support after delivery.
Tune in to The Surrogacy Space for more episodes that explore the multifaceted world of surrogacy and third-party reproduction.